Having children and bringing them up must be a very valuable experience for the parents. Children are supposed to learn a lot from their parents, but don't the parents as well have so many things to learn from their own and other children? I feel for those couples who, for certain reasons, are unable to become parents. But I don't have any favorable attitude towards those who prefer to remain issueless in their marital life just in order to be hassle-free.
Children always contribute a unique dimension to the family. Their innocence, sweetness and tenderness, whatever they say and do, the way they grow and learn things, open up pages of a book of joy for the parents, a book of shades and nuances of love. If people choose to live without children, they should better avoid wedlock.
Women having no children may grow a sense of loneliness at the later stages of their lives. Children and grand-children are the traditional source of company and support, and there is no reason why such companionship should be done away with. A woman living without children may look for some compensation by being associated with an educational or cultural cause for children, e.g. a school, an orphanage and the like.
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