There are a few reasons why viewing his cancer as an
"engineering problem" is a helpful analogy; in fact, it can be helpful for dealing with
any serious illness.
Working From a Familiar
Construct
One way to grasp a new and difficult concept or learn
something entirely new is to relate it to something familiar - go from the known to the
unknown. This is used in teaching; we work from something you already know and move
towards adding new information or branching to unrelated but similar concepts to aid in
teaching the new concept.
Many people use a gardening analogy to
deal with cancer - pruning and weeding in the garden is analogous to some of the
treatments for cancer such as surgery and radiation. Chemotherapy is like spreading a
spray to kill insects or weeds but can cause some harm to the grass or flowers.
Sometimes the garden is so infested, people will take a radical approach to killing off
a lot of it in order to wipe out the infestation.
Randy's expertise
in engineering provided him with a similar construct to manage his disease. The human
body and mind are sometimes described as an incredible engineering feat. The spread of
disease can be viewed more dispassionately if one thinks of the internal body and organs
as a computer motherboard, for example, with the body's lymphatic system as the buses
that transport bits and byes between the motherboard and its peripherals (body's
organs). Viewing his disease and its progression into different parts of his body this
way could have helped Randy both understand and deal with
it.
Distancing Oneself from the
Illness
A major illness can take a severe emotional toll on
anyone. Yet there are important decisions that must be made regarding treatment
options, one's living situation, family members, etc. Our brains are capable of
"compartmentalizing" information, to some degree, so we can face devastating news yet
continue to function. Randy's use of an engineering problem quite probably helped him
deal with the disease more dispassionately so he could make more effective decisions.
He made many choices regarding his treatment, each of which came with its own side
effects and potential to ensure either a longer life or a more humane and dignified end
of life. You'll see that, after he learned that the disease had progressed to a more
severe stage, Randy moved his family to Chesapeake so they'd be closer to his wife's
family.
Find What Works for
You
This is not to say that emotions aren't always present even
if they've been pushed into the background. But, using familiar constructs to
understand the disease can also help someone push those emotions into the background.
This dual approach can help someone adjust to a difficult situation, learn more about it
so they make better decisions, enjoy what remaining time they do have with family and
friends, and, as Randy chose, help others in a similar
situation.
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